Hugely relevant
Read If it is so Good to Talk
Mr. Marsh writes well about a topic that has not been considered in an in depth way in the modern consulting and mediation field. How can consultants give advice and their clients receive advice if they aren’t actually communicating in a deep and empathetic way? Have we lost the art of deep listening and knowing a person beyond the words that are being said?
Ian’s book goes far beyond advice for the professional. It is a wise read for anyone that is interested in knowing his or her own self, that of persons in his or her life, and how we interact with each other.
Read “If It Is So Good to Talk, Why Is It So Hard”, for a profoundly richer life.
Edmund Granski (Amazon .com)
What a fantastic and necessary book for our generation
We think we communicate well, but the majority of us can really struggle with the basic principles, especially when it comes to communicating with those closest to us.
A really good and worthwhile read – and a wonderful of point or reference to dip in and out of as and when required! I can highly recommend it!
Jessica McGawley, Dallington Associates (Goodreads.com)
A go to book when having that conversation seems too difficult
A very thought provoking look at the way we communicate or not as the case may be, Ian has some interesting idea about how to avoid misunderstandings and deal with them when they occur.
There are techniques included that will help you prepare for that dreaded conversation so you get the right outcome for both parties.
Highly recommend this book if you think your communication or conversation techniques need to improve to get better outcomes.
Amazon customer (Amazon.co.uk)
A superb book. Cutting edge yet eternal wisdom
This is cutting-edge. Ian Marsh gives us the state-of-the-art for 2019. In this superb book, the author provides much practical hands-on steps we can adopt in our lives and practices (I’m also a mediator) and the science to back them up. The author is also tremendously engaging and personable, sharing personal applications from his own life in brief boxes labeled “Life story.” I found the author someone I liked and he is a kind and brilliant guide.
David J Spellman (Amazon.com)
Vital skills. Essential reading
We live in the digital age, and stories abound of people who’d rather walk away – from a good job, a fine relationship, a pleasant neighbour – rather than tackle difficult subjects. The skill and ability, the very preparedness, to sit with someone and tell them how you feel, is being lost. Is it that we are better at writing than saying it? No! In this book, Ian Marsh sets out why it’s always been difficult to do, and why it’s getting harder. At the same time, he reassures us and teaches us how to go about it despite our old resistance to the very idea of ‘confrontation’. This is a book which rejects confrontation of the hostile kind: instead Marsh gives examples of what lies behind both our reluctance and our hostility – and how to leave them behind. Reading it, I realised the satisfaction we get from ‘getting it right’ is far better than simply ‘getting it done’. This is a book for our times, when online bullying has taken the place of civil discourse and disagreement, and reminds us of what we are actually capable.
JoK (Amazon.com)
An enjoyable and thought provoking book that I recommend highly
Ian Marsh’s book draws together several strands of the human condition that result from each of us speaking, hearing and seeing as we are, and not in a purely objective way.
He does this in a way that is engaging and personal, and not in any way doctrinal. His observations and suggestions bring together elements of respect, reflection and appreciation that help the reader towards better communication. His narrative weaves the practical with the scientific, psychological and physiological. I found that his writing drew together related themes that I had read in works such as ‘Desiderata’ (“you are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars”); and ‘Leisure’: (“A poor life this if, full of care, we have no time to stand and stare.”).
Riccardo (Goodreads.com)
If you want a good non-fiction read, pick this up!
Thoroughly enjoyed this book. Very informative and relatable, it was easy for the reader to make the most and put into practice what was being relayed.
As a upcoming graduate most of what was being said was easy to relate to and I can already see a benefit in my social circles due to reading this book.
I have already recommended this book to many of my friends (students) as I feel there are some interesting points that can be taken away from it.
This is a book that everyone should have on their bookshelf and can delve into whenever they feel they need a prompt. 100% a book I would pick up again and again and recommend to others. (less)
Sophie Spooner (Goodreads.com)
Either I did not know how to read this right or something is missing
I took this in a heart beat since I love communication books and the title was quite interesting, I was just wondering how can i communicate well with my manager. Unfortunately, i was confused most of the book. I found no real information there. his life experience was nice to read but ultimately I did not get it.
For example, I went through a paragraphed where the small title was in no relation. So why did they pick that I dont know. ! again I could be reading this book wrong since i see so many satisfied previews.
The author seems lovely and I’m so thankful for the opportunity, I hope my opinion is not going to effect him in regards of writing. I wrote what I felt right for me
NetGalley review
Nice book to get your head around different communication obstacles
I like that author provides a lot of life examples based on own experience. This makes the book very personal. Many cultural moments are covered as well. Nice a relaxed reading.
NetGalley review
A really fantastic read that’s on the shorter side
The book was full of helpful and insightful tips on the art of communication. Well worth a look, this book has a lot to offer anyone looking to expand their knowledge base.
NetGalley review
Good book – Quite helpful
Will try to do better in all types of communications and conversation from now on….
NetGalley review
This book is more based around life experience and research
I think the author did a really good breaking every point down. From this book, you will take a step back and self-evaluate your communication skill.
NetGalley review